Child Grief Counseling?

   Submitted by mommyworks2 on July 11, 2008 - 7:15pm.    

Does anyone have any suggestions for my son? He is 6 years old and within the last 4-5 months, he had his Kindergarten teacher pass away, my grandmother pass away (2 weeks ago) and now we have to put our dog down (within the next 10-15 days). He has been acting up at daycare and he finally broke down the other day and told me that he is afraid of me dying.
I don't know if there is a group grief counseling for his age group in town or whether it would be better to have him talk to someone individually. Any suggestions would be appreciated!


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Submitted by kimmerann on July 11, 2008 - 7:55pm.

I know that some funeral homes can put you in touch with programs or grief meetings. I'm very sorry he has dealt with so much at such a young age. I hope he is able to get some help and let out his emotions.~Kim

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Submitted by jifer on July 11, 2008 - 8:09pm.

I have a friend, Ellie Larsen, who is a counselor at Stronghold Counseling. She deals mostly with kids and adolescents.

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Submitted by JeniMc on July 11, 2008 - 8:23pm.

I think it's great you are thinking of this, and looking for help for him. My dad passed away when I was three, and no one noticed or realized how badly it affected me. I had a death fear for many many years.

Try Volunteers of America maybe? Good luck!

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Submitted by pandabear01 on July 11, 2008 - 9:56pm.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have a 6 year old, and I can only imagine what your son is going through. I am so glad that you are trying to seek help for him! What a great mom you are! I would also check with your pediatrician. My 7 year old was going through some problems, and he recommended a great counselor for her to help her with her feelings, and she is doing great! You pediatrician would probably have a good idea of who would be best for him! Good luck!

"Be yourself...No one can tell you you're doing it wrong!"

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Submitted by Mato3angels on July 12, 2008 - 2:54am.

My mom died in a car accident when my son was 5. There is a "Camp Jess" offered (or was) through Sanford. It is specifically for young children dealing with grief. It really helped my son, who was having a hard time even understanding at the time. Also, I'm sure any of the Counseling Services in town could recommend programs for your young child. I'm so sorry about your loss!!!